Sunday, August 12, 2012

Optimist, Pessimist Redux

"Evans likes to say that successful crews consist of an optimist and a pessimist: without the optimist, the crew would never leave the dock; without the pessimist, they would lose the boat." --Beth Leonard, The Voyager's Handbook

We posted this quote back in May, and Sue was reminded of it recently after a series of minor anxieties. Or were they successes? Or perhaps opportunities for growth?

Curtis was installing a small solar lantern on a stern railing when he suddenly let out an expletive. Sue asked what was wrong, and he responded that he'd dropped a rubber bushing for the rail mount...overboard. He sounded ticked off: at himself, at the water, at the lantern. Sue suggested that they might be able to make a replacement bushing out of some rubber or neoprene scraps at hand. “This is probably the first of many things we'll lose off the deck,” she added, thinking of the stories they'd heard about barbecue parts (or entire barbecues), winch handles, and tools committed to the deep. Curtis later admitted that watching the bushing disappear was a bit shocking, as it was his first time to watch something sink beneath the surface. Many other items had fallen into the bilge, or the engine compartment, or into other deep recesses, but at least they were potentially retrievable, with effort. Optimist: Sue. Pessimist: Curtis.

“Let's practice anchoring tomorrow and spend the night 'on the hook,'” proposed Curtis a few days ago. Sue immediately protested (she's very good at immediate protests) that we didn't know enough yet, it was too foggy, our anchor might drag while we slept. Curtis assured her all would be fine. But Sue wasn't done. “Can't we just practice a few times first? Can't we do a dry run and then come back and talk about it?” Sue apparently needs lots of pre-preparation and review before taking a new course of action. Curtis, on the other hand, is comfortable launching into multiple learning experiences at the same time. Optimist: Curtis. Pessimist: Sue.

We've had a persistent slow water leak under the galley sink since we moved aboard. A small puddle forms near a through-hull seacock, and when we taste it, it's salty. Mikey at Bittersweet suggested it might be one of the pieces of Pex hose we used to plumb saltwater to the galley footpump, so Curtis changed out the Pex with a length of white hose designed for below-water installations. He mopped up and waited. The puddle reformed. “The through-hull must be bad,” groaned Curtis. “We'll have to have the boat hauled out to replace it.” Sue traded places with him and scrunched down between the cabinet and the companionway stairs to take a look. Every bronze fitting and hose clamp was sweaty with condensation, so it was hard to see what might be leaking. She ran her hand behind a nearby flexible water line where it junctioned with another Pex line. Her fingers came away dripping. She dried off the spot and felt it a second time. Dripping. “I think it's this line,” she suggested. Curtis tightened up the connection, and the puddle stopped forming. Optimist: Sue. Pessimist: Curtis.

Our first solar shower experience was a decidedly mixed bag (!). It had been a warm, sunny day, so the five-gallon Stearns shower bladder heated up nicely on the foredeck. In the late afternoon, at a mooring fairly removed from other boats, we decided it was shower time. Five gallons is heavy, so we debated where to hang it. Sue wanted to hang it on the foredeck and run the hose down into the head through the open portlight, but Curtis thought the hose was too short to clear the sink and countertop area. Curtis wanted to hang the bag from the boom over the cockpit, but Sue thought it wouldn't be high enough to even wet her hair, let alone rinse shampoo out of it. Boom-hung it was. Sue ended up sitting under the steering wheel in the cockpit to wash her hair, and she was Queen Grump about it. Curtis took the second shower, and he reveled in the warm water, the lovely evening, and the view of ospreys and bald eagles overhead.


It was very nice to feel clean and warm, Sue admitted later, over a plastic cup of wine. Choose your attitude. Or your remedy. Or both, adds Curtis.